Our dad's would not accept us!!! HELP FAMILY CRISIS?

okso a month ago my boyfriend and i came out to our moms and dads. my friends knew two years before that,and my boyfriend jst came out to them this year. i just turned 14 and i have a boyfriend who is going on 15. but thats not the problem, our mothers, cousins, friends, and siblings don't mind just our dads.at first my boyfriend's dad won't him hang out with me. my dad made me read a bunch of brochures from the church we go to. then summer almost came and i made my dad and told him not to worry about it and just live life as if i were straight. both our dad's are very phobic, and call ity is abnormal. that it is a mental illness.they also say we haven't been with a girl so how would we know. they also say we are to young. bill my boyfriend, his dad says that i caused it and that if you know a gay person they try to get you to be on their side as iif it was a cult. we got them to go to our school counselor but that didn't even work and said that the teachers don't care for us. they told us that they are afraid we would not be happy, people would look down on us. we live in los angeles california where uality is abundant. then they say they were going to kick us out of the house at age 18. my situation doesn't compare to how bad bill's is. since tha mom doesn't really mind she lets me hang out with bill, but when his dad came home he got mad at her and blamed her that she is contributing to the "sickness" now it's tearing up the family. what should i do to have them accept it????